Love and Relationships –
True Love is an Expression and Extension of Self – Part 1
Love and Relationships –
True Love Has No Abuse, Because Love Has No Connection – Part 2
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Love and Relationships – True
Love is an Expression and
Extension of Self – Part 1
Many individuals continuously
seek love and affection of some
kind, to be loved or to belong,
whether it is from a spouse,
parent, child, sibling, friends
and peers, bosses and workmates
and even pets. They continuously
think that something outside of
self will fulfil an empty space
within that they feel needs to
be filled. However, they very
rarely seek self-love, to love
the self, to honour, to feel
worthy, to accept and bless the
self and to have compassion for
self, for the experiences they
have endured. Why? Because
humanity only looks on the
outer, they never get to think
that energy reflects from the
inner to the outer. What you
are within, you project out, to
reflect your vibration to the
outer. If your feel lost,
lonely and empty, what do you
think you will attract back –
emptiness in your relationships?
If you have fear and hate in
your heart, do you think you can
attract love and kindness back?
To address the issue on love can
be broken down into 4 main
categories.
1.
Love
2.
Love to Do Something
3.
Hate
4.
True Love
Let’s take a look at each
individual category:
1.
Love - Physical love is an
extension of loving yourself. In
your world you have chosen to
believe in certain patterns, in
duality and in separation and
only bits and pieces of you that
you choose to create and achieve
with. When you stop seeing the
physical being as a shell, made
up of blood, flesh and bones,
that was born as a result of a
mistake of atoms that perishes
at death, you will begin to see
that the soul and spirit is
expressing and experiencing life
within that physical vessel,
then your relationship with
another is a way of seeking self
– love is a way to feel tender
affection for somebody or
something through the self. Love
is a way for you to feel a
desire, to feel a romantic and a
sexual desire and longing
towards another, through the
self and it is a way for you to
share and do something with
another, through the self.
If you can have a romantic love
affair with another can you have
one with yourself?
It is a way, for you are
eternally inseparable, you are a
part of each other, you are a
divine eternal being. The
physical love is an extension of
soul love, for within each
life-time you can experience
love, to join in the wonders and
glory of reuniting once again.
Who do you love? Who have you
great affection for? Do you
enjoy their company? Do you
enjoy your own company? Do you
love yourself? Do you love
conditionally or
unconditionally? What agendas to
you hold on to when you love
another?
2.
Love to Do Something – Love has
many forms – it is not about
loving another, but it is also
to love doing, being and having
something – to fulfill a
creative passion or desire.
Again whatever you do, eg a
creative skill is reflecting
your energy, you are putting out
your love for something – that
creative talent is an extension
of you. Do you have a strong
liking for or pleasure gained
from something? Do you love
something that elicits deep
interest and enthusiasm in you?
What do you love to do? Can you
radiate out that love to others?
Can you share that love to you?
What do you love to create and
express in your reality?
3.
Hate – The opposite of love is
fear and hate. There is a very
fine line between the two,
because hurt is the instigator
in crossing that line. Due to
old beliefs, controls and
selfish agendas, love can easily
turn into hate when someone
cannot get what they want or
lose what they can’t enslave.
However, you cannot allow
someone to hold onto you if the
relationship is not serving you
or your partner in an empowering
and fulfilling way. Sovereignty
and freedom has no rules that
bind you into any limited
confined walls. Do you hate or
have an intense dislike towards
someone or something? Are you
unwilling to like someone or
something? Are you hated by
someone? Do you
dislike or detest somebody or
something in a way that evokes
feelings of anger, hostility, or
animosity? Do you have a
strong distaste for something?
Do you loathe or have an
aversion for something,
somebody, or something that has
to be done? Are you disgusted
with someone or something? Are
you repulsed by and can’t stand
something or someone?
4.
True Love - True love is the
expression and the reuniting of
yourself, which is the same
essence that flows through all
others and self and creation.
You are interconnected to all
and when you love yourself then
you can love all others. When
you can have a wonderful
relationship with yourself, then
you can have a wonderful
relationship with others. Love
is essentially a state of being,
you cannot discover love until
you unfold the love for
yourself, you cannot love
another until you love yourself,
therefore self-love is loving
all in the universe, because
everything upon earth is within
you.
Love is tapping into that part
of the self; it’s being
receptive to invite others into
this space. E.g. When you fudge
or find a fault in another it is
just revealing a weakness,
dislike or irritation within
yourself. The act of contraction
leads you toward being unloved
that bring a feeling of
isolation and separation. It
is a state of fear, an addiction
from some kind of insecurity,
anger or some emotional issue,
but expansion and openness leads
to total love.
Love and Relationships – True
Love Has No Abuse, Because Love
Has No Connection – Part 2
An external relationship is like
the wings of a bird, one being
masculine and the other
feminine. The wings join
together their strong and weak
qualities that make up the whole
partnership. Due to karmic
issues, external relationships
have dual conditions often
making you unbalanced and like
the bird, one wing is strong and
dominant and the other wing is
weak and suppressed, therefore
the bird cannot fly and you and
your partner cannot function
well. An old energy relationship
enables you to look at yourself
better, but it is easier to love
another, because you have a
partner to blame all your issues
onto. Blaming another does not
work, but it is still difficult
to really look at yourself, to
look at each issue and see how
if affects you personally. But
the stigma within mass
consciousness has brought about
many conditions and beliefs
about what a relationship should
look like – that is an
illusionary lie. To love, to be
loved and to belong is a human
instant that dictates how life
should look like, but it doesn’t
work like that fairytale story.
To address the issue on love can
be broken down into 4 main
categories.
1.
New Energy Relationship
2.
Total Compassion
3.
True Love Has No Abuse
4.
Love Has No Connection
Let’s take a look at each
individual category:
1.
New Energy Relationship - A new
energy relationship is to learn
to have a relationship with
yourself first before a loving,
sharing balanced and harmonious
relationship can be experienced
with another. It is a sovereign
relationship with self, with all
facets of self. The
relationship with your partner
is just a mirror of the type of
relationship you are having with
yourself. A relationship with
self is to bring the outside
issues to the inside – looking
within instead of focusing on
your partner– to seek out the
missing link to fill the empty
gap within yourself first. A
loving new energy relationship
with another is to be able to
open the door of self-discovery
without fear of any destructive
abuse, limitation or
disempowerment. It is to be with
your partner, to enjoy their
company, for you do not need
anything from them, you do not
need to take their energy by
feeding off them, you do not
need to take or share their
money or material possessions,
and they do not have to do
something in return for you to
love them and for them to love
you. They do not need to feed
off you or enslave your energy.
It is to enjoy the relationship
with them without placing each
others fears, baggage, burdens,
agendas and attachments upon
each other.
2.
Total Compassion – Unconditional
love has total compassion with
no expectation and agendas – the
love is deep as to allow your
partner to do anything that they
want to do and to discover, even
to live in another place. True
love is unconditional, it is not
conditional, which means you
don’t love them just for their
job, money, or faithfulness or
what they can give and do for
you. Having an agenda places
mistrust within a relationship –
to demand a trust. Conditional
love is being an empty vessel,
you have nothing to give -
nothing can be given if it is
not within you in the first
place. i.e. if you are not full
with unconditional love and
trust. True love is to trust
another totally and openly and
it is to allow another to
express themselves. True love is
to willing to allow them to be
anything they choose to be, do
or have.
3.
True Love Has No Abuse - True
love is to fearless acceptance
and trust who they are and what
they are doing, there are no
self-absorbed controls and
forceful limitations or no
fearful agendas, but it does not
mean that you have to like it –
it does not mean you have to
take on their ills, their mood
and any of their abusive
experiences as your own. It does
not mean that you have to put up
with their temper tantrums and
for them to wipe their dirty
feet on your doormat. That is
the distinction line – you can
have total unconditional love,
but you do not have to put up
with any abuse. This is where
looking at the mirror comes in,
you teach people how you want
them to see and treat you; you
teach them through expanding the
awareness of your own self-love
and self-worth levels. You are
sovereign in your own right –
you can love your partner and
not take on their abusive issues
and because you love someone it
doesn’t mean to have to live
together or see each other each
night in your physical reality.
Love is eternal and forever, it
is everlasting even when you are
no longer in physical form – it
is always present.
4.
Love Has No Connection – True
love has no connection, it has
no agendas and conditions and
it’s not an endurance race of
who is going to be together the
longest. It is to be able to say
to each other, each day that you
choose to love each other, to
share your time together and to
allow each other to have the
love and joy for that day and if
you choose to be alone for a
period of time or to be with
another that is your right, but
it needs honour, acceptance,
integrity and compassion.
A
loving relationship with self
must be found before true love
is found with another. It is to
fully love self, to touch, to
talk, to breathe self in and to
embody all facets of self for
what you are or what you have
been. It is to stop belittling
and judging the self, to stop
creating new controlling
discipline rules for yourself.
It is to be liberated by not
carrying around old baggage of
the past, or luggage from others
or limiting barriers of mass
consciousness. There is no
suffering, hardship or drudgery
– you do not have to worship or
celebrate anyone or anything
other than celebration of pure
joy.
