Giving and Receiving – Who Do You Serve
and Who Are You Really Serving – Part 1
Giving
and Receiving – Can You Give Unconditionally; to Give without an Agenda – Part 2
Giving
and Receiving - The Outside World Cannot Fulfil an Empty Vessel – Part 3
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Giving and Receiving – Who Do
You Serve and Who Are You Really
Serving – Part 1
Majority of humans try to
protect or guard others, they
are in service to others, they
serve and give to others and
rarely do they allow themselves
to truly receive. Many will
say that it is selfish to think
of yourself, to give to
yourself, to love yourself and
to allow yourself to receive, so
they deny the self. In the mean
time, they watch others play and
enjoy life, whilst they inwardly
complain and become bitter with
self, others and life.
Do
you share and give to others?
Do you provide, offer, bestow,
grant, donate and give away
something? Do you give
conditionally, hoping that
someone will give you something
back in return? Do you give your
services to others, to allow
yourself to go without? Do you
deny yourself pleasures in order
to be seen to be in service to
others?
To
address the issue on giving and
receiving, can be broken down
into 4 main categories.
Duality is Unsafe and
Unbalanced
Self-Denial Disempowers You
Energy Reflects from the
Inner to the Outer
Who Do You Serve
Let’s take a look at each
individual category:
Duality is Unsafe and
Unbalanced - Duality is an
unsafe, unbalanced energy,
where when you play a story
game of taking and sharing
and giving and receiving, it
is very rarely balanced.
This means that there is
always a win-lose
situation. You either focus
more on giving and less of
receiving or more on taking
and less of sharing.
Self-Denial Disempowers You
- It has been ingrained for
eons of time to put the self
last, to take on the vows of
poverty and suffering so you
can do for others, to serve
others and you are expected
to appease, be obligated and
compromise yourself in order
to serve others first.
These beliefs only deny
yourself the pleasures,
comforts and the abundance
that life has to offer. Most
of the time, you are serving
others fears, agendas,
controls and demands and you
are allowing others to
manipulate and disempower
you. Self-denial is not
serving you and it is
certainly not serving
others.
Energy Reflects from the
Inner to the Outer - How can
you give to others when you
cannot give and receive the
pleasures and abundance for
yourself? Are you aware that
energy reflects, expresses
and projects itself from the
inner to the outer? How can
you love others when you
belittle yourself, abuse
your physical body and
ignore your true essence?
You will only attract the
same qualities to you of
what you are projecting -
ill health, abuse
emotionally or physically
and victim-hood
relationships.
Who Do You Serve - You were
taught to love your
neighbours like yourself,
you were taught that loving
self is vein, selfish,
greedy, egotistical and
arrogant, but really that is
only fear. If you think you
are unworthy and have to
deny the self, then as
energy expresses itself from
the inner to the outer, you
will also think that those
around you are unworthy and
you can deny their needs
too. You cannot serve others
when you are denying
yourself somehow. You can
easily end up taking from
others in order to satisfy
an unfilled empty space
within you – that is the
fear ‘not having enough –
the survival instinct of
just enough’.
Actually, when you belittle and
deny yourself at the same time
of serving and/or giving to
others, you are only giving them
your empty negative attitude.
The outer satisfaction of giving
is feeding you. If you are
giving to them to appease them,
you are feeding them – they are
feeding off you. You are
getting something from it –
perhaps an irresponsible
attachment pay-off of some kind.
Who are you really serving? You
are only serving them to make
you feel better or more powerful
or more worthy, but nothing
outside of you can fulfil any
empty desire. It is because deep
within, you feel so unfilled and
empty so you are only giving
them your empty wishes, which
would most likely be the
dramatic woes of the world.
Giving and Receiving – Can You
Give Unconditionally; to Give
without an Agenda – Part 2
Life
have been about giving and
receiving. The giver is also
the receiver. What life has to
offer you will depend on what
you choose to give to yourself?
In the past it was expected to
give to others first before
self, but energy is reflected
from the inner to the outer.
When you give, can you give
unconditionally –without an
expectation on what you want to
receive back? Can you allow them
to choose what they want to do
with the gift that you are
giving? Can you give to others
without obligation, appeasement,
compromise and an agenda?
To
address the issue on giving and
receiving, can be broken down
into 5 main categories.
Feelings Do the Asking
Support Team Gives Back What
You Feel Within
Give Without An Agenda
Label of Conditional Love
Unconditional Love
Let’s take a look at each
individual category:
Feelings Do the Asking– If
you unconsciously feel that
you are unworthy, your
support team around you in
your physical reality and in
the ethereal realms will
also support you in
unworthiness. When you think
that you are unworthy, you
are enhancing your
self-denial attitude to
reinforce any undeserving
and abusive experiences. You
can repeat an affirmative
statement over and over, but
if you feel unworthy it will
not change your experiences
because your feelings do the
asking. When you live and
dwell within a dualistic
world, what you feel within
may not be compatible with
what words you say and it is
certainly not in alignment
with what experiences you
are having and desire to
have.
Support Team Gives Back What
You Feel Within - If you
deny yourself something you
are denying giving and
sharing that gift or quality
to others. If you lack
acceptance, love, honour and
having compassion for
yourself you also lack being
able to give those qualities
to others – if they choose
to accept it. Your support
team will always give back
to you what you feel within
and what you dwell upon i.e.
what you give to yourself.
Give Without An Agenda -
When you give to self or
others it is important not
to have an agenda, an
expectation, because the
outcome may not look like
what you want. As your
consciousness grows and
expands it cannot perceive
something that is out of
your imagination realm. Can
you allow yourself to have
no agenda, but still expect
something to be there – that
is the paradox of duality?
On the outer world, true
giving, is giving without
any agenda and not having
strings attached to a
condition. Whatever you do
for self you are also
sharing that gift with
another energetically if
they choose to accept it.
Label of Conditional Love -
The motive of your thoughts
behind any action has a
greater influence upon your
growth, so doing and buying
things for others to benefit
you will only bring a label
of conditional love. It has
an agenda, a conditional
attachment to it. It is
saying, “I will love you if
you can give me this or you
must do this so that I will
feel better”. When you do a
service just to please
someone or to oblige
someone, you not only limit
the other but also you
disempower yourself, even if
you are taking pride in it –
that is the pay-off, the
attachment to this thing and
you will become bound by it.
Unconditional Love – When you
love unconditional you don’t
hold onto any expectations of
the outcome. Fear is not
present and you allow others to
choose their journey, even if
you are not in agreement with
their choices you can still
bless them no matter what they
choose. In other words when you
give, give without expecting
something in return, give
without placing your conditions
onto another, whether it is
emotional, physical or a
material fulfilment.
Giving and Receiving - The
Outside World Cannot Fulfil an
Empty Vessel – Part 3
To
be free of any kind of
limitation is to be detached to
any service, obligation or any
belief and story, and with the
unconditional motive behind it.
Any service that is based upon
compassion, know-no-agenda and
fearless acceptance and
understanding is selfless,
because it helps others who are
receiving the service and it
detaches you from any conditions
by giving the service. Are you
the protector of those you are
in service to; to protect those
you love to the extent where you
will also deny your own growth?
Do you serve others, even if
that action will not benefit you
and your evolutionary growth to
where it will suffocate the
birth of integrating your total
self. This one-way giving may
one day turn into complaining
about your unfilled and
misfortunate lacks to where you
become disappointed and perhaps
even bitter that nothing comes
to you and others are not giving
something back to you. After
you keep giving, do you feel
deep within that you are getting
nothing back, that no body
cares, that everybody is taking
from you? Do you complain that
you don’t have enough to go
round? Can you allow another to
give you something? Can you give
to yourself before you give to
others?
To
address the issue on giving and
receiving, can be broken down
into 2 main categories.
Give
Yourself a Gift
Can you
Allow Yourself to Receive?
Let’s take a look at each
individual category:
Give
Yourself a Gift - Have you
ever received a gift or an
unexpected parcel? Can you
give yourself a gift? Can
you look beyond the usual
ways of how someone gives a
gift? Can you begin to look
within for your gifts,
instead of looking outside
of self? When you are
closed to new ideas of
looking within for
self-fulfilment, because
your old story, your
masquerade identity was
about being in service to
others, looking on the
outside for worth, love,
health and abundance, you
will always have to keep
searching to find outer
fulfilment from others or
from a gift from your
material world of wealth and
status? The outside world
cannot fulfil the emptiness,
the separation of love
within you. The old
ingrained beliefs of giving
only to others, forgetting
and denying the self for it
was said to be wrong and
selfish to do and give to
self is still very strong
within every individual. Can
you send yourself a gift and
write yourself a little note
and place it in the parcel?
The note says: “The greatest
gift you can give yourself
is the gift of allowing
yourself to receive the
wonders of life through
accepting the love, trust
and worthiness of self” -
signed your divinity.
Can you
allow yourself to receive a
gift? - To buy yourself a
gift, something just for you
is the first step of
allowing the abundant energy
to begin to flow. Can you
take care of yourself, to
give to yourself first, in
order to be able to give to
others? Can you allow the
love of self to
automatically be projected
to others if and when they
are ready and willing to
receive it? Be grateful no
matter what happens – keep
your heart open and be
willing to give and receive
to yourself first in order
to give back to others
naturally. You cannot give
to others when you are an
empty vessel, give to
yourself and allow yourself
to receive so you can give
freely and unconditionally
to others.
Many
are able to give but they often
do not recognise that they in
turn need to receive, to give to
themselves so to return this
gift to others. When you are
not doing enough for self, not
taking care of yourself, not
taking time out for yourself, by
being caught up in doing for
others, you are not
acknowledging that you are your
own master. When you are
empowered others cannot feed off
you. Be loyal to yourself and
then you can give your loyalty
to others. Contentment is found
within, be thankful for your
surroundings, enjoy life, accept
all things, as you do not need
to take and feed off others in
order to receive. Give to others
and then allow yourself to
receive the flow of these gifts
in return.
