Introvert or Extrovert -
Be Daring to Look Within,
Looking Outside of Self Will
Never Satisfy You
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Introvert or Extrovert - Be
Daring to Look Within, Looking
Outside of Self Will Never
Satisfy You
What
story character are you acting
out in this lifetime? Are you an
introvert or an extrovert? Have
a look at your experiences, the
kind of relationships you have
with others. Your friends may
have similar interests and
desires, but does your family
unit have different characters
or personalities? Are you an
introvert and they are an
extrovert or vice versa? What is
the balance, the mid-way point
between the two dual polarities?
To
address your issues, problems
and challenges can be broken
down into 4 main categories.
Timid, Shy, Introvert
Bold, Brave, Extrovert
Say Yes, for Balance – Be
Daring
Looking Outside of Self Will
Never Satisfy You
Let’s take a look at each
individual category:
Timid, Shy Introvert - Are
you quiet, timid and shy if
so why? Are you an introvert
and withdrawn? Are you
nervous, fearful, hesitant,
coy, apprehensive and
faint-hearted? Are you
bashful, modest or just a
non-assertive person?
Do you
demonstrate a lack of
courage or self-assurance?
Are you easily frightened?
Are you unwilling to trust
or put confidence in
somebody or something? Are
you reluctant and fearful of
making a commitment? Do you
shy away, to move suddenly
in fright or alarm? Do you
stay away, to avoid or evade
something? Are you a
reserved person, a shy
person who tends not to
socialize? Do you focus on
yourself – are your feelings
and thoughts directed
inward? Can you turn
within, to direct or turn
something inward or to go
within to self-examine or
dwell on personal thoughts,
feelings and motives?
Bold, Brave, Extrovert - Are
you bold, daring and
courageous? Are you an
outgoing live-wire that’s
assertive and confident?
Does your assertiveness go a
step too far to turn into
aggression? Are you a
sociable, cheeky and a
friendly extrovert?
Are you
fearless and adventurous?
Are you willing and eager to
face danger or an adventure
with a sense of confidence
and fearlessness? Do you
require or show fearlessness
and daringness? Are you
original in what you do?
Are you impudent or
presumptuous, to lack
modesty or impolitely
assertive? Are you clear and
conspicuous, to stand out
and therefore easily
noticed, to always be in the
limelight? Do you have or
show courage, especially
when facing danger,
difficulty, or pain? Are
you an outgoing person -
somebody who is sociable and
self-confident? Do you have
an interest outside self -
somebody whose interests are
directed outside the self?
Can you direct your interest
inward, to look within self?
Say Yes, for Balance – Be
Daring – There is no right
or wrong with being an
introvert or an extrovert.
However, both parties can
have a facet that is
imbalanced or a limitation
to achieve something grander
than what they can presently
perceive. Due to a timid
and shy nature, an introvert
maybe non-assertive and can
often attract others who
suppress, control and
disempower them. Because
they can be subservient they
do have a deeper motive to
get out of the victim
mentally to gain more
master-ship over their
life. Because they are shy
and reserved on the outer
and appear to others as
being weak they can develop
greater courage on the
inner. A disempowered
person is more likely to
resort to their shadow
potential of being bold,
fearless and brave, to begin
to act out their hidden
extrovert qualities, because
they have nothing to lose.
When they allow themselves
to be disempowered,
everything that they look at
in the outer world is filled
with controls, limitations
and manipulations. They have
no where to go but to begin
to look within self, to
discover their inner
strength by becoming
awakened and aware of the
conflicts within themselves.
When they do this, they can
obtain more strength,
assertiveness and confidence
on the outside, because
energy is reflected from the
inner to the outer.
Looking Outside of Self Will
Never Satisfy You - On the
other hand, an extrovert is
perceived to be bold, brave
or a free-spirit on the
outer. This is can be a
façade in order to act out
their assertion, strength,
control, aggression and
force to cover up a hidden
fear or weakness
within. They gain their
external power through
control and dominance and
whilst they keep acquiring
their exterior status they
won’t have the desire to
ever want to look within, to
discover their own hidden
weaknesses. Focusing on the
outer distracts them from
looking within. Why would
they want to change their
life when they can get what
they want from others? When
they are being outwardly
fulfilled financially,
materially, socially,
physically or sexually, they
keep their focus on the
outer physical-material
world and they have no real
need to ever want to become
awakened to look within,
because they can keep trying
to fulfil their needs from
others – to feed off others,
to disempower others. The
more they get, the more they
want and their desires and
needs are never satisfied
and their soul can never be
fulfilled because they lack
the motivation to seek inner
growth that will inspire and
expand their consciousness.
Blaming others for their
adversity experiences can be a
crippling factor for both
parties if they are unaware of
taking responsibility and
looking within to discover their
fears and inner conflicts.
Unfortunately, it is often a
crisis of some kind that will
force them to ever have a desire
to question their reality and to
begin to look within. There is
nothing wrong with being an
introvert or an extrovert as
long as they can find the mid
line balance between the two
extremes. It is to be willing to
take their focus off the outside
world, accept responsibility for
their experiences without
blaming others and say yes, for
balance, to be bold, brave and
daring to look within to
discover hidden fears and
conflicts. When they are brave
and fearless on the inside they
can reflect that energy on the
outside – it won’t have an
attachment to the ego’s façade
or a dependency pay-off.