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Article 78  

Introvert or Extrovert - Be Daring to Look Within, Looking Outside of Self Will Never Satisfy You

 

 

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Introvert or Extrovert - Be Daring to Look Within, Looking Outside of Self Will Never Satisfy You

 

What story character are you acting out in this lifetime? Are you an introvert or an extrovert? Have a look at your experiences, the kind of relationships you have with others. Your friends may have similar interests and desires, but does your family unit have different characters or personalities?  Are you an introvert and they are an extrovert or vice versa? What is the balance, the mid-way point between the two dual polarities?

 

To address your issues, problems and challenges can be broken down into 4 main categories.

  1. Timid, Shy, Introvert

  2. Bold, Brave, Extrovert

  3. Say Yes, for Balance – Be Daring

  4. Looking Outside of Self Will Never Satisfy You 

Let’s take a look at each individual category:

  1. Timid, Shy Introvert - Are you quiet, timid and shy if so why? Are you an introvert and withdrawn? Are you nervous, fearful, hesitant, coy, apprehensive and faint-hearted? Are you bashful, modest or just a non-assertive person? Do you demonstrate a lack of courage or self-assurance? Are you easily frightened?  Are you unwilling to trust or put confidence in somebody or something? Are you reluctant and fearful of making a commitment? Do you shy away, to move suddenly in fright or alarm? Do you stay away, to avoid or evade something? Are you a reserved person, a shy person who tends not to socialize?  Do you focus on yourself – are your feelings and thoughts directed inward?  Can you turn within, to direct or turn something inward or to go within to self-examine or dwell on personal thoughts, feelings and motives?
     

  2. Bold, Brave, Extrovert - Are you bold, daring and courageous? Are you an outgoing live-wire that’s assertive and confident? Does your assertiveness go a step too far to turn into aggression? Are you a sociable, cheeky and a friendly extrovert? Are you fearless and adventurous? Are you willing and eager to face danger or an adventure with a sense of confidence and fearlessness?  Do you require or show fearlessness and daringness? Are you original in what you do?   Are you impudent or presumptuous, to lack modesty or impolitely assertive? Are you clear and conspicuous, to stand out and therefore easily noticed, to always be in the limelight?  Do you have or show courage, especially when facing danger, difficulty, or pain?   Are you an outgoing person - somebody who is sociable and self-confident? Do you have an interest outside self - somebody whose interests are directed outside the self?   Can you direct your interest inward, to look within self?
     

  3. Say Yes, for Balance – Be Daring – There is no right or wrong with being an introvert or an extrovert. However, both parties can have a facet that is imbalanced or a limitation to achieve something grander than what they can presently perceive.  Due to a timid and shy nature, an introvert maybe non-assertive and can often attract others who suppress, control and disempower them.  Because they can be subservient they do have a deeper motive to get out of the victim mentally to gain more master-ship over their life.  Because they are shy and reserved on the outer and appear to others as being weak they can develop greater courage on the inner.  A disempowered person is more likely to resort to their shadow potential of being bold, fearless and brave, to begin to act out their hidden extrovert qualities, because they have nothing to lose. When they allow themselves to be disempowered, everything that they look at in the outer world is filled with controls, limitations and manipulations. They have no where to go but to begin to look within self, to discover their inner strength by becoming awakened and aware of the conflicts within themselves. When they do this, they can obtain more strength, assertiveness and confidence on the outside, because energy is reflected from the inner to the outer.
     

  4. Looking Outside of Self Will Never Satisfy You - On the other hand, an extrovert is perceived to be bold, brave or a free-spirit on the outer.  This is can be a façade in order to act out their assertion, strength, control, aggression and force to cover up a hidden fear or weakness within. They gain their external power through control and dominance and whilst they keep acquiring their exterior status they won’t have the desire to ever want to look within, to discover their own hidden weaknesses. Focusing on the outer distracts them from looking within. Why would they want to change their life when they can get what they want from others? When they are being outwardly fulfilled financially, materially, socially, physically or sexually, they keep their focus on the outer physical-material world and they have no real need to ever want to become awakened to look within, because they can keep trying to fulfil their needs from others – to feed off others, to disempower others.  The more they get, the more they want and their desires and needs are never satisfied and their soul can never be fulfilled because they lack the motivation to seek inner growth that will inspire and expand their consciousness.

Blaming others for their adversity experiences can be a crippling factor for both parties if they are unaware of taking responsibility and looking within to discover their fears and inner conflicts. Unfortunately, it is often a crisis of some kind that will force them to ever have a desire to question their reality and to begin to look within.  There is nothing wrong with being an introvert or an extrovert as long as they can find the mid line balance between the two extremes. It is to be willing to take their focus off the outside world, accept responsibility for their experiences without blaming others and say yes, for balance, to be bold, brave and daring to look within to discover hidden fears and conflicts.  When they are brave and fearless on the inside they can reflect that energy on the outside – it won’t have an attachment to the ego’s façade or a dependency pay-off.

Copyright 2009 Pamela Skuse

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