Stop trading-in your skills and
flogging your creativity as
second-hand abilities! Don’t
wait on the street corner for
another to pick you up, to pick
up your victim pieces after you
have fallen in smoky
surroundings. Don’t think too
little of yourself by allowing
another to carry your baggage
just to suit their agendas –
that appeasement, obligation and
compromise will enslave and
disempower you.
Know that you are unique and
that you have everything within
you to attain anything that you
desire. Honour and accept
yourself, value and hold
yourself in high regard, respect
and love the worthiness of self,
trust your own wisdom, knowledge
and skills and cherish your
self-esteem. What you are within
is reflected in the outer – to
be attracted back to you.
There were another 2 Main Factors to Understand and Appreciate the
Value of Self
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Release expectations and
agendas on your perceived
outcome
-
Release expectations and
agendas on your perceived
time frame
Let’s take a look at each individual category:
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Release expectations on your perceived outcome is to
‘Know-No-Agenda’ – This
means you must have no
expectations on what the
outcome should be and have
no conditions on what others
should be, do or have.
Agenda limits the structure
of energy, to where that
condition becomes stuck. The
most important scenario in
creating new choices is to
let go of having certain
expectations on how your
outcome should look like.
This goes beyond planning,
because setting goals limits
new potentials to come in –
it only allows you to create
what your mind knows and it
does not allow your
imagination to explore into
unknown potentials. The
mind is limited in its
ability to think, feel and
reason beyond what it knows.
In other words, ‘the mind
does not know beyond what it
knows’ and it is fearful of
the unknown and of change.
So if you stipulate what
your outcome should look
like you are limiting a
grander opportunity to come
in. This unknown potential
is way beyond your present
consciousness, it is beyond
your present day-dreaming
state or what your
imagination can perceive and
conceive in your now moment
state of being. There are
so many potentials on your
creator-supermarket shelf,
many of which are hidden
behind other dominant items.
As your consciousness grows
so too will your potentials
- they will come into the
forefront of your
creator-supermarket shelf.
Releasing your expectation
and agendas on what you
should be, do and have also
releases disappointments and
self-belittlement, yet when
the unexpected does arrive,
greater fulfilment,
excitement and wisdom is
experienced.
-
Release expectations and
agendas on your perceived
time frame - This means you
do not need to set a time
when you should succeed or
when you should receive
something or when something
should happen. If you set a
date for something to
happen, and it doesn’t
happen by that date, you
automatically belittle
yourself, you feel that you
have failed, so you loose
trust in yourself and
because it doesn’t work, you
give up and stop pursuing
that desire. Also, if you
dwell upon that failed event
you bring that past wound
into your future to repeat
the same pattern. Then you
miss the boat, you miss out
on something better or
grander to come in
afterwards. In other words,
do not have an agenda on
when something should
happen, as once again some
other event may need to
happen first. You may need
to clear old wounds; to
close the door on old events
or you may need to address
another issue before a new
door can open. You may need
to release past failures
that are blocking the
attraction process before
your desire can manifest.
How did my client perceive this Who Am I Formula reading session?
He realized that he didn’t need
to set time limits and he had to
let go of having expectations on
how, when, why and where
something should occur – he
learnt to allow energy to flow
by accepting all things as they
are. He had to ‘stick to his
guns’ so to speak – not to give
in, ‘not to sell himself short’
or undervalue his worth, not to
feel desperate for that victim
condition attracts shark
feeders. He had to sell his
knowledge, his assets for the
value of what it is worth.
In the first scenario a buyer looked at his proposal, he seemed
very enthusiastic, but didn’t
respond after the proposition.
My client did not move from his
fair offer, even though it was
possible to fall short when he
was feeling desperate to gain a
sale. A couple of months later,
he received another offer – but
it was a very low offer on
selling his assets. A couple of
weeks later the buyer came back
to double his price, with fewer
limits and conditions. The sale
went through.
Copyright 2009 Pamela Skuse
www.whoamiformula.com
info@whoamiformula.com
