Joy and Happiness – Take Your Focus off ‘No
Pain - No Gain’ Struggles and Choose to Live
Joyfully
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Joy and Happiness – Take Your
Focus off ‘No Pain - No Gain’
Struggles and Choose to Live
Joyfully
All humans have been brought up
thinking that life involves
suffering, hardships and pain,
as this is the only way to learn
and to achieve growth. The old
age perception of ‘No Pain - No
Gain’ is that we need to
struggle to appreciate the
values of life and we have to
fight for something to be
worthwhile. Life doesn’t have
to be hard and difficult or to
have pain, struggle and
suffering, as this illusion is
the acting out process of the
hypnotic belief system and
overlays of mass consciousness.
Of course, you can grow and
learn if you belief that
struggle, misfortune and pain is
the motivator to end your
adversity, but it doesn’t have
to be that way. Can you let go
of limited and painful beliefs
and myths that disempower you?
Are you daring to look at the
other side of the coin and step
into a life that is filled with
joy and happiness in all weather
conditions?
To address
your issues, problems and
challenges can be broken down
into 4 main categories.
Take
Your Focus Off Material
World
Place
Your Attention on Your I Am
Joy is
a Top Level Choice
Choosing Joy
Let’s take
a look at each individual
category:
Take
Your Focus Off Material
World - Be willing to
take your mental focus off
the material world for that
keeps you dwelling in the
fears of the past and the
illusionary drama games of
lack. When you dwell upon
what you haven’t got you are
stating just that. When you
identify with the outer
lack, it will control you
and it will keep you in a
state of lack, which will
increase with use and your
lack will only grow fatter
and bigger.
Place Your Attention on the
I Am – Put your focus on
who you are; be clear about
who you are – the “I am that
I am”, you are a creator -
full stop! By placing your
attention on the ‘I am’, you
are getting out of the mind,
because ‘the mind doesn’t
know beyond what it knows’
other than past fears and
lacks and limitations. Are
you ready to allow your
dormant intuitive divine
self to begin to integrate
and experience life, not for
you, but with you? However,
before you can integrate
your total self, you have to
make one of the top level
choices for you to achieve
the bottom level choices –
the human wants, needs and
desires. How often have you
said ‘All I want is to be
happy, healthy and abundant
– damn it’!
Joy
is a Top Level Choice –
Why is joy a top level
choice? Life cannot give
you its gifts if you don’t
choose the joy of living. If
you don’t choose to see the
gift within all of your
experiences, you won’t feel
the joy and when you are sad
you won’t allow yourself to
receive. When you are
hurting you won’t choose to
live with love and health,
because you belittle and
feel unworthy, so it brings
in the lack of joy,
happiness and abundance into
your life. Joy brings love,
it brings happiness and it
brings abundance on all
levels, because you choose
to live fully, beyond the
‘just enough to survive’
scenario. You can only live
fully when you accept, love
and honour yourself and when
you accept others as they
are then it comes down to
‘accepting all things as
they are’, which brings in
joy and happiness and the
abundance that you asked
for.
Choosing Joy – When
you choose joy, you will see
the gift and the blessing
within all experiences.
When you see the joy, the
gift or blessing in an
unpleasant experience, it is
not about being in denial,
selfish or lacking
compassion, it is about
honouring your experiences.
When you discover the gift
within the experience, it
not only brings the wisdom,
understanding, acceptance
and compassion from breaking
through stuck barriers and
limitations of having these
experiences, but it brings
the joy and the ‘wisdom of
uncertainty’ that inspires
and expands your
consciousness. Joy is the
gift, the blessing that you
have given yourself. Inner
joy extends to happiness
that can only be achieved
when you see the joy in all.
Each moment
of the day decide how you want
to feel, what you want to do,
and choose what potentials may
happen, because you are
responsible for what you do and
how you see things. Therefore,
you can choose the feelings that
you want to experience, and if
you are not feeling that, feel
the energy and discern why. You
are not responsible for what
others say and do in your life,
but you are responsible for what
you take on board, the energies
that you hold onto and how you
perceive them. Be aware of
taking on others burdens and if
you feel energy that you don’t
want and that you haven’t
consciously chosen, just release
it. Just because you feel sad
or your feel someone’s sorrow
and pain, it doesn’t mean it is
yours and it doesn’t meant that
it is your truth - just let it
go, accept that energy until it
moves on and rechoose your new
truth, via your conscious choice.