47.
Confirm and Address Issues and
Problems - Know, Uncover and Confirm Buried
Problems
48.
Confirm and Address Issues
of Creativity - To
Unblock and Expression Your
Creative Passion
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49. Confirm
and Address Issues with Acceptance - React
With a Fight - Flight Response
or Accept and Do-No-Thing
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Confirm
and Address Issues and Problems – Know,
Uncover and Confirm Buried
Problems
Majority of
individuals are subject to many
feelings that they don’t
understand what they are feeling
or why they are feeling that
way. Many feelings revolve
around fear, guilt, shame,
resentment and sad and hurtful
experiences. Holding on to
negative emotions are very
destructive to your physical
vessel - it is like a rusty iron
roof, where the rust eats away
at the iron, destroying its
immune system until it is
weakened and shattered with
holes.
However, when you attempt
to address an issue, change a
behaviour pattern or attract a
better outcome in your life’s
experiences you can sabotage
yourself and fail? Why?
Often you
are unaware of what your issues
may be, because you have buried
the problem. You may still
constantly dwell on what you
don’t like, but you are
unwilling to address its root
course. The fear that has
created the issue is greater
than the experiences you are
having now. Because you are
dwelling upon what you don’t
like, it drains your energy and
you keep away something grander,
the things that you wish for,
the creative passion that you
desire are kept in the
back-burner because, you don’t
trust and believe in yourself
and you seek validation in
others outside of self. In other
words, don’t you know what your
issues are and you are unwilling
to confirm or address your
issues because you have buried
your problems?
To address
and solve your issues and
challenges to confirm your
buried problems can be broken
down into 3 categories.
Know
Your Issue
Uncover
Your Issue
Confirm
and Address Your Issue
Let’s take
a look at each category.
Know
Your Issue – All human
issues can be boiled down to
four different categories
and that is:
a.
Self-worth
b. Relationships
c. Abundance
d. Health
Because Self-worth is at the
top of the list, every
other issue, problem,
obstacle or challenge is the
link down-line in the
‘family tree’ that flows
from your level of worth –
i.e. how you see yourself
and how you treat yourself
will affect the outcome of
your relationships,
abundance and health.
According to how you see and
treat yourself you will
attract similar
personalities with similar
belief systems into your
life, until you are willing
to get out of that game. The
level of your self-worth
also attracts your
abundance-scarcity
experiences and the quality
of your relationships – i.e.
the people you mix with will
influence and enhance those
experiences. Your health is
usually at the end of the
chain, everything that is
happening within your life
is reflected in your body.
Your body absorbs everything
and it expresses what you
are feeling through your
body language, through your
physical wellbeing from your
beliefs and your emotional
state of how you perceive
and handle stress and the
wonders of life.
Uncover Your Issue –
When you know that you have
issues do you bury the
problem, hoping that it will
go away when you can’t see
it? Your body language,
your body profile and image
will not hide a façade.
Your daily experiences of
the ups and downs will
uncover any buried problem
through the repeating events
and the similar
relationships that you keep
attracting into your life.
You live in a dualistic
world of opposites, one
aspect is on the surface and
the other is suppressed
under the surface waiting
for the right time and
opportunity for something to
trigger that condition to
express itself. When you
bury an issue, it may lay
dormant for years and life
times, but one day that
stuck and suppressed energy
will seek release. Until
that time of when you are
willing to address your
issues, you will keep having
similar and repetitive
experiences.
Confirm and Address Your
Issue - To confirm your
issue is to be willing and
ready to address and face
your fearful issues. Being
an enlightened aware person
doesn’t let you off the hook
to having a non-challenging
life. When you travel
around a corner there will
always be another corner to
go around somewhere,
sometime and it depends on
whether you see that corner
as a tight hair-pin bend or
a slight smooth curve. What
you see around the corner
also depends on how you
perceive that experience of
getting around the corner in
the first place and all this
is influenced from your past
beliefs and past
conditionings and influences
that reflects how you will
see your future.
Sometimes,
when your consciousness grows
you think that you have gotten
over the rough and rugged
potholes, however, that may not
be the case. The ladder of
awareness brings you the
experiences that you have put
into the too-hard basket a long
time ago, where your mind, body
or spirit may not have been
ready to handle such a condition
and have since forgotten about
the incident. When your
awareness opens up those long
lost wounded stuck energies will
come into your life, the
repetitive drama games that you
continually experience for you
to uncover your buried problems.
Actually, your old issues have
always been around, the
repetitive dramatic
relationships, health or
abundance challenges that you
keep attracting to you are the
old issues that you buried, but
you have been unwilling to see
them, to address them and to
resolve that unfinished
business. Because you are not
willing to release duality so
you can uncover your issues you
also cannot unblock your
passion, you cannot discover,
create or express a new passion,
a new potential. When you cannot
create and express your hearts
desires, you go back to duality
to the fight or flight response,
because you cannot accept and
do-no-thing because you think
you have to fix the situation
through force, fighting,
struggling and suffering – a way
to get acknowledgment and
saviour.
Confirm
and Address Issues on Creativity –To Unblock
and Expression Your Creative
Passion
When you have issues, problems
and challenges it takes your
attention away from your
creativity and the ability to
find your passion. Life is a
series of climbing a mountain,
the ups and the downs and going
around one corner to another to
evolve and grow. Even when you
get to the top of the mountain,
there are more mountains to
climb! Your journey is never
ending, because the soul is
always seeking growth through
expression and evolution. When
you dwell upon trying to get
around the tight corners you
will see them as one struggle
after another and you will
attract the same experiences
that every other corner had
given you. Every corner is a
reflection of your issues and
challenges and when you focus on
these challenges that condition
is what you will get. By
focusing on the outer world, the
struggling corner in your
journey you squash or block your
creative passion to come forth.
To move
beyond your issues, problems and
challenges to express your
passion can be broken down into
3 categories.
Unblock
Your Passion
Create
Your Passion
Express
Your Passion
Let’s take
a look at each category.
Unblock Your Passion
– The normal road to climb
any mountain is to travel
along the main route that
humanity has mapped out for
you. It has its ups and
downs, but you allow
somebody else to map out
your life for you, and that
is why your road will get
many more potholes. When you
follow another’s journey,
you not only take on their
energy as your own, you also
live it - you are living
somebody’s else’s truth.
That in itself creates a
conflict within you.
Because you are focusing on
that main route and because
the potholes are getting
deeper is due to allowing
somebody else to tell you
what you must be, do and
have. You can only get to
know You, when you can take
your mind off what everyone
else is doing and to follow
your own heart. When you
dwell upon fear, doubt and
mistrust, you squash any
unknown potential, your
creative skills and
knowingness to come forth.
Your creativity is blocked
and you become stuck and
stagnant and you keep
attracting the same cycles,
going around the steep
mountain corners and getting
no where. To unblock your
passion is to step out of
the mind to trust yourself
and know that something
grander is within you if you
allow it to open up, if you
allow it to come through
your imagination.
Create Your Passion –
Your imagination is the
birth of all ideas, but
first you must believe in
that thing before you have a
desire to create it. It
doesn’t matter what your
passion is, what creativity
you hold onto or what skills
or talents you have – as
everyone as something – it
is to allow yourself to
create from your heart.
Your mind often travels at a
high speed as you travel
around the corner of your
issues and it becomes tired
and stressed easily, so your
imagination cannot come in
when your mind is stuck in 1st
gear, with one foot on the
brake and the other foot on
the gas peddle. To create is
to allow energy to flow and
to move with ease. Being in
your safe space and deep
breathing whilst keeping
your focus in the present
moment will allow your
energy to move. To be able
to explore what you need to
create is to trust yourself
and accept what ever comes.
Express Your Passion
– Do you have creative
skills - and do you ignore
it? Do you think that
fulfilling a
physical-material need is
more powerful that finding,
creating and expressing your
passion? Your passion is
your uniqueness of what
excites you. It is your
hearts desire to choose to
live what you enjoy, and
that may not be the same as
others and it may not be
what you are expected to do
just to fulfil a material
condition. Do you create and
do nothing with it? Do you
suppress or hide what you
create? Are you fearful or
shameful about what you
create? What you create is
who you think you are – are
you bold to express that –
your truth – your authentic
nature – even if you are
classed as crazy? Do you
like what you create? Are
you afraid to ‘show and
tell’ your creative passion?
Do you feel that you will be
judged or ridiculed for your
creations? You grow and
expand through expressing
your creative passion! No
matter what your creative
passion is, and it doesn’t
just relate to whether you
are a musician, an author,
artist, dancer and singer,
but it relates to how you
choose to live your life, to
create what you want in your
life with self-worth, love,
joy and acceptance. That is
creativity - that is the art
of living - that is creating
through choice and then
playing with that choice –
it is to learn new ways, to
explore new potentials, to
sing new tunes.
When you know your issue, when
you begin to uncover your issues
you can confirm your issue.
Then, when you address and take
your focus off your issue, you
can unblock your creativity and
you can begin to create and
express your passion that is
outside the minds perception.
Whatever your choose in your
life, whatever story game that
you want to play, just express
it, play it, play with it, learn
new styles, skills and tunes.
Be entertaining, play with your
life for your creative passion
is your life being expressed.
Are you tired of playing the
same old song that duality
repeats? If so, you
need to play your tune and sing
your own song – not another’s
song? Are you expressing your
passion or creativity? Do you
want to? Do you fight for it, or
are in flight from it? Are you
idle – not dancing with your
passion, not singing or playing
your tune, but doing things that
others expect from you? Do you
accept your situation and
do-no-thing in order to allow
energy to change? Your over-soul
is not interested in your
physical needs and desires, for
it has everything. Your
over-soul has only one desire
and that is to move stuck energy
so it can live life, to
experience the wisdom within
each experience and express and
expand itself through You –
through your creative passion –
your life – your art form!
Confirm
and Address Issues with
Acceptance – React With a Fight
- Flight Response or Accept and
Do-No-Thing
When you dwell upon the outer
reality, you cannot know
anything else but what you dwell
upon. This is because ‘the mind
does not know what is beyond
what it knows!’ When you dwell
upon duality and react or
respond to a situation you only
know of two choices and that is
the fight or flight response.
Actually, humanity believes that
to achieve something you have to
actively fight for it, to strive
hard to gain something to make
the pain worthwhile. The saying
goes ‘No Pain – No Gain’, and
you wonder why life is full of
struggle, suffering and
hardship. Through resistance and
non acceptance you dwell upon
the struggle, the hardship and
the suffering and that is what
you attract to you, the same
pain over and over again.
Resistance brings conflict, pain
and suffering.
To move
beyond your issues, problems and
challenges to accept and
do-no-thing can be broken down
into 3 categories.
Fight
Response
Flight
Response
Accept
and Do-No-Thing
Let’s take
a look at each category.
Fight Response - Fight
is an attack or an
aggressive reaction to a
fearful situation. There
are many ways you can react
out of fear and if you are
rejected you may attack the
other violently, criticize
or attack their reputation
even though it may not seem
obvious. Humanity expects
aggressive people to be
strong, but it’s just
another name for fear, as it
shows up their hidden
weakness. Aggressive,
manipulative or destructive
behaviours that you are
anxious about are driven by
the same fears that has
caused your anxiety, the
very same fear that is
pushing you, but in a
different way. Harsh,
abusive and aggressive
manners are weak, because
you are afraid to allow a
kind, compassionate and
nurturing energies and
behaviour to soften your
attitude, fearing that you
won’t be able to handle that
situation or condition. You
also fear being hurt or not
allowing the hurt or
sensitive feelings from
others moods to enter, so
your harshness is putting up
your prickles to place a
protective boundary wall
around yourself. The
fight-aggression response is
induced by a poor
self-worth.
The Flight Response –
Flight is to run away, to
hide and retreat. The
flight-submission response
is caused by a low
self-worth that leads to
making excuses, lying,
giving up, becoming
addicted, avoiding
responsibility, having a
reaction to rejection and
lack of expression, as well
as living a life of
appeasement, obligation and
compromise and so on. Some
types of submission are
refusing to look at an idea,
as the method seems
threatening, giving in to an
idea and allowing others to
make choices for you, by
playing the role of a
victim. This is by deciding
and allowing that some
comments are hurtful, or a
put-down that leads to
depression, which is only
anger suppressed. When
these feelings are not
expressed, you become a
victim. By suppressing your
feelings or deliberately
forgetting a devastating
experience of hiding your
true-feelings will retreat
in addictions, psychosomatic
conditions or to harbour and
hide your non-accepting
delusional ways.
Accept and Do-No-Thing
- The more you fight
against things, the more
these methods attack you, as
you’ll never get anywhere by
bettering yourself or the
world through fighting or
even retreating. These
poor, fruitless and
unproductive methods only
return to fear, conflict and
dishonouring the event and
when you band together with
others to ‘fight’ against a
problem, you give up the
control of your actions, you
give away your power and you
become influenced by others
choices. When you retreat,
you ignore the issue by
putting it under the carpet
to bury the problem, but the
issue will not resolve if
you are in denial about it,
if you are suppressing it,
if you are fighting for it
or against it. When you do
not acknowledge and do not
accept what is occurring you
bring onto you more of what
you don’t want. Resistance
brings pain. When you are
playing the game of duality
you are siding with right
and wrong, good and bad and
through resistance you are
not aware that every
experience is appropriate
for the level of
consciousness at that time.
You have only got to read
history to find the
massacres and deaths of
deliberate famine that has
brought great suffering, and
humanity does not know and
will never know what would
have happened and what they
would have gained if they
just ‘accept and do
nothing’. Now, others will
state – if you don’t do
something, you don’t care or
that bad thing will
overpower you. When you
understand the nature of
energy and the conditions of
duality, knowing that
through acceptance there is
a blessing within that
experience, and when you
take your focus off that
dual scenario to acknowledge
the light and the dark
conditions, that is when you
change your energy field,
and the conditions will
change to correct and
balance the situation. It
takes trust to allow that to
happen. Because you are not
fighting or retreating, you
are addressing the
situation, you are
confirming the event without
dishonouring and ridiculing
the negative, because you
are not placing your focus
onto it. At the time you may
not know what the gift in
the experience will be, but
you will know that there is
one and it will be revealed
to inspire and expanded your
consciousness if and when
you are willing to be open
to it.
Part 1, 2,
and 3 is: When you know your
issue, when you begin to uncover
your issues you can confirm your
issue. Then, when you address
and take your focus off your
issue, you can unblock your
creativity and you can begin to
create and express your passion
that is outside the minds
perceptions. Then, when you
stop fighting and focusing on
trying so hard to achieve
things, and when you stop
retreating and hiding from the
things that you fear, and when
you accept and do-no-thing that
is when you begin to attract a
new energy potential into your
life. There is a fine line, the
point of separation between
fighting, flying away and
bringing in the energy balance
to accept and do-no-thing. At
that point you need courage,
belief, trust and a knowing that
all is well, whilst in your safe
space, deep breathing and living
in the now moment, otherwise
there is a risk of the fight and
flight response to kick in, to
sabotage your energy balance and
then you will find yourself back
into the drama games of duality
following the influences of
humanity within their dark deep
mud pools or flying high in
their dream clouds. For that
point of separation, imagine
being underwater as the fight
response; the point of where the
water meets the air or sky is
the point of balance, to accept
and do-no-thing line; and the
air or sky is the flight
response. The point of
separation or the line of
balance is very fine compared to
the depths of the water and the
height of the sky. It is your
choice to what you choose to
experience.
