5. – A
Deeper Perspective on ‘Love Your
Neighbour Like Yourself’ – Part
1.
and
6. How
Does ‘Not Loving Yourself’ Play
Out in Your World? –
Part 2.
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Self-Worth – A Deeper
Perspective on ‘Love Your
Neighbour Like Yourself’ – Part
1.
The majority of
individuals refuse to
acknowledge that they do need to
improve their self-worth,
self-esteem, self-image and
self-respect not to even think
of the expanded concepts of
loving, accepting, blessing,
acknowledging and honouring
themselves.
Developing self-worth
and self-love is not just for
those with poverty or victim
consciousness. Every single
human being has a need to
improve self-love,
self-responsibility and
self-empowerment, otherwise
there would be no problems in
the world – there would be no
victims and there would be no
perpetrators , there would be no
suffering, hardship, punishment
and struggling with ‘just enough
to survive’.
Because one may appear
to look good on the outside, or
if one may have material wealth,
if one has a good job with ample
income, if one can speak proudly
or if one has egotistically
embarrassing experiences there
is still a need to honour and
love the self to the state of
where you have total
unconditional love, total
acceptance of all things, total
compassion, ‘know-no-agenda’ and
have complete respect and honour
for everything and everyone.
Have you ever heard of the
phrase “Love your neighbour like
yourself”!
Does this create a
contradiction deep within you?
Do you think that there is a
deeper meaning to this phrase?
If you allow yourself to wander
for a moment, can you see with
clarity beyond this concepts, to
the true meaning, the energy
structure – to see beyond the
present understanding of this
commandment?
Look at the conflicts and wars
within the mass consciousness
world and then look at your own
experiences. Can you see how
each individual person in your
environment perceives, belittles
and judges others, with very
little care and attention? Can
you see that same quality in how
they treat themselves? They act
and react with that same
behaviour. Do you realize that
they are one and the same?
Humanity cannot live the
principle of ‘love thy neighbour
like thyself’ within their
community. Society’s
conditioning, facades,
benchmarks and dogmas behold
this concept and make the outer
world think that, as adults,
they are treating their
neighbour with love and kindness
- truly they are not!
Beneath the surface, what are
your feelings, your thoughts,
beliefs and judgments about your
neighbour, family, or the other
cultures around the world? Is
there prejudice or are you
putting on a false front, a
façade? What role models do you
teach your children to adapt and
to adopt as their own?
Can you see that within each
individual, and even within
yourself - there is a part that
belittles and abuses yourself?
This part does not accept some
aspect of the self in some way -
whether it is emotionally,
physically or spiritually. Do
you see that individuals blame
everything else outside of the
self for their issues and
misfortune? Does that apply to
you also? It is another’s fault
for the experiences that you are
having? Do you see that nearly
every person seeks advice and
validation to something or
another outside of self – that
something or someone else is
smarter, grander, more skilled
and superior to them, therefore
stating that they are indeed
inferior and untrusting to
search for their own answers? Do
you also?
Can you begin to question this
perception, looking at the
energy structure - beyond a
logical mind?
To treat a neighbour or any
other person with unconditional
love, compassion, respect, care
and kindness, you first have to
treat yourself with love,
compassion, respect, care and
kindness. You must be the full
vessel. Then, the inner loving
energy vibrations can be
projected out through your
behavioural patterns and through
your actions. Your consciousness
projects out the loving energy
quality or the unloving trait
way beyond a façade. It will be
returned to you, as you will
receive what you give out - even
if you are not aware of your
inner feelings and beliefs.
Energy is reflected from the
inner to the outer. You must
have that quality within you -
in your core belief structure -
to attract and experience that
quality in your outer reality.
You are what you think, feel and
believe in. You are how you see
yourself - which is reflected in
your body and in your
experiences! If you feel
unworthy, unloved or picked on,
being a victim of society’s
frustrations, you have to look
at yourself. If you become a
victim of fate or circumstances,
it is your responsibility, for
you are unconsciously attracting
that quality to you! Your
abuser is mirroring an aspect of
you of how you see and treat
yourself, deep at your
unconscious level.
Two Steps to Observe
1.Firstly, you must accept
the responsibility for your own
actions for they are your
creations.
2.
Secondly, through observing your
thoughts, feelings and
experiences, and through
observing the building-creating
processes and the
destructive-destroying processes
within you, you will see how
your belief system - your inner
energy structure is formed.
How can you love your neighbour
if you don’t love yourself
first? And how can you love
yourself, if you criticises,
belittle, condemn, disrespect,
abuse, self-destruct,
self-indulge and judge yourself?
If you indulge in attachments,
obsessions and addictions,
habits or bad moody behaviours,
how can you accept, respect and
love another? If you do not like
what you do, or what you look
like or who you are, or if you
have an agenda of how life
should be - how can you do
otherwise for another?
Sabotage
Self-Worth – How Does ‘Not
Loving Yourself’ Play Out in
Your World? – Part 2.
The consciousness of your energy
structure unconsciously projects
out what is going on at your
deep core level. A façade
cannot hide your fears and your
baggage. These are the inner
conflicting qualities that are
projecting out into the
community. They are seen within
family feuds, community
bickering, bureaucratic rules,
the serpents of society and
global wars.
7 Points on how does ‘not loving
yourself’ play out in your
world?
·
Not loving yourself is
contaminating your body with
chemicals from inhaling/eating
toxic substances that gives a
highly addictive-abusive quality
that self-destructs the
physical.
·
Not loving yourself is drinking
fluids that produce a drunken
lethargic body that does not
want to exercise.
·
Not loving yourself is indulging
in foods - the rich sweets and
fast foods – the pick-me-ups
that produce a swollen
gas-filled belly and to store a
cloth of fat to protect yourself
from not being loved by
yourself.
·
Not loving yourself is having
moods of back stabbing
squabbles, snorting in
judgmental discontent and
creating the bad habits of
fighting, manipulating and
controlling others in your
world.
·
Not loving yourself is allowing
others to control you, to feed
off you, to disempower you to
enslave your energy through
judgments, appeasement, agendas,
obligation and compromise.
·
Not loving yourself is feeding
yourself with complaining,
festering fearful thoughts of
belittlement, judgment,
disliking self from out-dated
and worn-out beliefs or even
being physically or mentally
attached and obsessed to
something or a dependent
relationship outside of
yourself.
·
Not loving yourself is thinking
that you do not deserve
something, that you must be
punished for a sin or error, and
that you are not allowing
yourself to receive the
abundance and the empowerment
that you can claim. Your heart
cries out to receive your worth.
Instead you live with ‘just
enough to survive’ that is
filled with suffering, hardship
and effort – a belief in ‘no
pain – no gain’.
The Dualistic Imbalance
·
At one over-inflated level of
the ego - not loving yourself
can contain force, greed and
power, through the fear of not
being in control and ownership
over yourself. It then takes on
a quality of trying to control,
force, fight, steal and feed-off
others to get what you want—to
gain love.
·
At the bottom level of a
squashed ego—not loving yourself
is having unworthy,
disempowering and self-denial,
‘just enough’ concepts. It is
about lacking physical pleasures
and comforts that lead to
poverty - instead of living in a
wonderful abundant environment.
Then what is the deeper energy
involved in self-love?
Self-love is not vanity,
selfishness or arrogance! All
these negative qualities are not
love. They are a FEAR!
The fear for you not to love
yourself is an imbalance and a
lack. It is an over inflated
poor self-esteem or a low
self-worth inflicted by an
unbalanced egotistical
intellect, reinforced by mass
consciousness hypnotic belief
system and overlays. It allows
inferiority and unworthiness to
surface - to be replaced by an
‘instead’. These issues bring a
feeling that you are not good
enough, that you have done
something wrong, that you feel
that you have sinned, a mistake
by your creations, an a high
power force must save you — and
that has created karma of cause
and effect. You think you need
to be punished for your mistakes
and therefore you need to
suffer. Look at the world and
you will see suffering,
hardship, punishment and
struggling with ‘just enough to
survive’. Then you feel that
you don’t deserve. This leaves
you with a feeling of guilt,
shame and resistance - a
destructive energy that destroys
what you have built. Resistance
brings pain and pain brings
suffering - is a rigid belief
system of an unbalanced
perceptions.
The fear of the indoctrinated
belief that self-love is vain,
selfish and egotistical to love
yourself has allowed you to
accept these fearful rules,
taught conditions and dogmatic
standards within mass
consciousness as being true for
you.
To serve others first and not to
love the self was written in the
scriptures to bring fear,
control and greed upon the
masses. The consciousness at the
time was low, cruel, barbaric
and harsh and it was appropriate
at the time. Times have
changed; consciousness has risen
in a modern technological era,
to where these handed down
beliefs do not serve you
anymore.
When you cannot love and accept
yourself, when you are angry,
spiteful, jealous and judgmental
etc, you are an empty vessel and
an empty vessel has nothing to
give other than your fearful
baggage, agendas and burdens.
Yet an empty vessel cannot
receive love and abundance
because you are in so much
denial of accepting yourself or
of trying to give everything to
others that you ‘miss the boat’
– so to speak and ignore any
opportunities that come your way
to receive. When you keep
giving to others, and you cannot
receive you will begin to
complain, stating that ‘no one
supports you’ that ‘no one
appreciates what you do’ and so
on.
It is time to let go of old way,
old belief structures that have
been passed down for centuries.
By learning to love yourself, to
accept yourself, to honour your
100% worth that you have
inherited since birth, you will
realize that all of your
experiences have been about the
percentage level of how you have
seen yourself, how you have
treated yourself and how much
you thought you deserved
something. Now with a new
expanded perception you can
still love the worth of yourself
without feeding off and
disempowering or stealing
energies from others and vice
versa. The balance is just that
– ‘you can have your cake and
eat it’ – you can love yourself,
you can give yourself the
treasures of what life has to
offer and you can give that to
others along with your
compassion, acceptance, honour
and blessings and to serve
others too if and when they
choose to accept it.
